Everything that I do, noticing myself in the world, trying to be effective as a businessperson — this program showed me that there’s a way to address it that allows me to handle all of it, to encounter all of it and not freak out.
The two people who offer it are such a brilliant counterpoint to each other — they come from such different stories. These people are really not talking about the product being something that you can package, sell, produce, charge for. They’re talking about your value, you as an individual, and they’ve got the bones and the heart to do it.
- Brenda Kelleher, Brunswick, Maine
I’d never done anything online, or by the phone. And I thought, hmm, how real can it be? People portray themselves as anything online. And I’m a pretty sophisticated psychological person, and I thought — nobody can help me.
Well, I played out my no one can help me thing. And you both just stuck it out, and called me on it, and named it, and I recognized it. Now I’m able to have perspective, to observe myself. That helps keep me from being overwhelmed and overtaken by my distress. So I’m less likely to discharge feelings at my staff or my friends.
It works. I’m surprised that it worked. And I can’t really explain how it worked. But I notice a change in myself. A change for the better. My staff and friends — I think they’d say, Jill’s happier. Yeah. I’ve never felt this good in my whole life!
- Jill Wallace, Topsham, Maine
Elm Street Assisted Living
You are masterful at hearing what someone is saying and truly understanding them. Your ability to actively listen and tune in to not only the words but the emotion, what that person is really saying, makes the person truly feel valued. Jon and Grace get what I was saying, they get where my place is, where I am right now. You guys are true pros at it, you really do a great job. Regardless of what else was going on in the call, whoever was speaking, you knew that Grace and Jon understood where that person was.
- Lauren Pickwoad, Vice President at a national printing company based in Dallas, TX
There’s some kind of balancing factor that happens with this program, that keeps pulling me back to try to keep the whole picture in focus, instead of just the compelling issue of the moment. I have a feeling of community, an awareness of fellow searchers who are trying to find a way to be who they are.
There is a an expanded sense of breathing space in my life. It’s as if doors and windows are opening that I didn’t know were closed — that I didn’t know were there.
- Sharon Robohm, Bath, Maine
I acknowledge you both for the simple, clear, and profound doorways that you present. The level of integrity, compassion, and safety that was created was palpable. I really appreciate the way you don’t make it about “you” and thus this helps me not make it about “me.”
- Na’ama, St. Helena, California
After a lifetime of being all things to all people, is it possible to live from who you are instead of for other people’s expectations?
Is it possible to have relationships that aren’t about playing a part, putting on a mask?
You can connect with your purpose and deep intention for your life. And you can have relationships that honor the person you really are, instead of forcing you into roles that feel uncomfortable and untrue.
It’s not too late. You can find another way.
This is an invitation to join up to seven other women, women like you who are seeking a sense of purpose and a core intention for their lives.
Women who are responding to the call, who are turning towards what’s true for them.
Women who are ready to break free from others’ expectations and reclaim their wholeness and power.
You’ve tried the self-help route. You’ve read the books, taken the classes, listened to the teachers and the so-called experts.
You approached those teachers and techniques with great hope. Because you know, deep inside, that there is more, there is ease and peace, there is freedom from doubt and from your painful feelings of inadequacy — and there is freedom from the constant drive to be there for others at the expense of your own wants and needs.
And each of those approaches, techniques, and teachers helped ... for a little while. But in the end, the old patterns of thought, behavior, and feeling resurfaced.
And each time you felt a little more trapped, a little more frustrated, a little more despondent.
And a little more wrong. After all, if all those teachers and techniques couldn’t help you, what does that mean about you?
Anything that makes you feel wrong is an unhelpful trap.
This program isn’t another technique. It’s a fundamentally different perspective that acknowledges the simple truth that you are your own expert.
It’s an offering of time and space to make a commitment to yourself, in the presence of others and with the support of competent, compassionate facilitators. A commitment to yourself to open to another way, allowing yourself to come into a place of lasting stability and consistency.
In this program, we don’t ask you to discipline yourself into new habits. We don’t try to talk you into thinking or feeling anything other than what you do think and feel.
Have you noticed that trying to convince yourself to change your thoughts or feelings doesn’t work?
Instead, we help you turn back towards yourself.
We help you observe and question, with great compassion and deep curiosity, the ways in which you criticize, judge, and drive yourself. This isn’t plastering on a veneer of affirmations or “positive thinking.” This is a deep, powerful process that brings true, lasting shifts in your perspective.
We help you learn a simple, effective approach that dissolves the fog of “shoulds,” relentless responsibility, and other people’s expectations, so you can find the simple, practical, grounded place that is your own deepest truth and natural self.
And we help you explore what relationship means to you, and how you can stop working so hard to be what others want — and have more satisfying, deep connections with the people you love.
Ready to see what’s included in the program?
View the schedule, guarantee, and cost?
Or continue reading for more descriptive details...
The group setting holds the space for a sacred truth: there is more to life than struggle, doubt, uncertainty, and a yearning for connection. There is peace, joy, and real relationship — with yourself and with the people you love.
If you have a telephone (or Skype with a clear connection), and a computer with Internet access and email, you can easily participate.
Three months of guided, powerful, compassionate support in a group setting with no more than seven other women — women forming a community and supporting each other on the journey.
Six 90-minute, focused, high-content group sessions provide the backbone for this powerful program. Each group session is conducted over a private teleconference line — you participate from the comfort and privacy of your own space. That’s 9 hours of content, guidance, and coaching.
All calls are recorded so you can listen to any session you miss — and review sessions to hear yourself and others’ responses to you.
Unlimited email support. You can email either Jon or Grace — or both of us! — whenever you need support or have a question. Unlimited support — all you can use.
Written, audio, and visual materials pertaining to the concepts presented in each group session.
Because it makes a huge difference to have one-on-one contact on an ongoing basis, the Premium offering adds individual, personal support to the Basic package. It’s in-the-trenches support that helps you deal with and learn from the everyday issues of your life.
In the Premium program, you receive 6 hour-long private sessions. Each month, you’ll have one private session with Grace, and another with Jon.
Six 90-minute group calls
Unlimited email support
Regular price: $220/month, for a total of $660)
Your cost: $150/month, for a total of $450
(Billed monthly, on the first of each month, for the 3 months of the program.)
ADD 6 hour-long private sessions to the Basic package
(Regular price: $425/month, for a total of $1,275)
Your cost: $295/month, for a total of $885
(Billed monthly, on the first of each month, for the 3 months of the program.)
We want to make this as accessible and as helpful as possible for everyone.
Therefore, we offer these options...
And you can use the same form to ask any questions you may have.
The program is not currently on the calendar.
If you’re interested in being notified when the calendar is updated, just click here to fill out the contact form and let us know — we’ll be sure to inform you when we schedule the next group.
We’re confident that this program creates results. In fact, we so deeply believe that your active involvement in the program will help you see results well beyond your expectations, that we offer a very generous guarantee.
If you...
and yet at the end of one month you don’t feel that the program is being effective for you, we’ll cheerfully refund 100% of your money.
Need to cancel for other reasons? You’ll pay only for the months in which you participate.
We want to be sure we know how to meet your expectations. And we want to be sure that each participant is a good fit for the program and for the group.
That’s why one of us — either Jon or Grace — will talk to you, in confidence, before we enroll you in the program.
To start that process, we’d like to learn more about you to help us understand what you’re looking for.
Please let us know your name and email address through the form below. You’re also welcome to include a phone number (helpful so we can call you to talk!) and your location is useful for us to know what time zone you’re in.
Your response is held in complete confidence, and it comes directly to Jon’s and Grace’s personal email in-boxes. One of us will be in touch within one business day to set a time to talk further.
The program is currently not scheduled, but we’ll be in touch to confirm that you’re on our list to be notified as soon as the next group begins to form.
Of course, if you have questions, we want to answer and help you decide if this program is right for you. Just fill out the applicable parts of the form below, and we’ll get right back to you.
Or if you prefer, you can call us directly...
Jon: 815.678.7313
Grace: 760.757.7660.